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Ever get frustrated

From Oalbrets on 3/13/2011 12:33:54 PM

What do you do when you get frustrated? Throw your banjo in the street? Smash it on a tree? Everybody gets frustrated one time or another. Trust me I know. Last night when I was learning Salt Creek I came to the F part with the PULL OFF. Ouch,I tried and tried and tried. Ouch. I got frustrated so I put my banjo down and sat there thinking. I decided to pop in the Murphy's blooper video and just sat there and watched it while I was steaming. Pretty soon I was smiling and laughing. I came to the conclution that Murphy put those bloopers on the video for a reason. To show that pros also make mistakes when pickin. After I was calmed down from watching the bloopers I started thinkking about that PULL OFF. I remembered in one of Murphys videos that she did the push off instead of the PULL OFF. I remember her saying that if you want to do the pull off then that is ok. What ever is easy for you. I went back to my computer room and grabbed my banjo and tried to do a push off instaed of that PULL OFF and lord and behold it worked. I was a happer camper again and played that push off for hours and loved that push off. From now on when I get frustrated I am going to pop the blooper video in and enjoy it until it calms me down.It works.  What do you all do when you get frustrated? You might want to try this. I call it the Misfit Method. Ha Ha.

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DGEBanjo says:
3/8/2011 9:33:37 AM

I posted this over on the Murphy Blog site back near thanksgiving. It is rather long but it is how I handled the frustration


Another Murphy Method Revelation
This post comes from a Murphy Method student in Arizona, Dave Eisenhuth.

I am sure your have a library full of e-mails from frustrated students at different levels of instruction, however I wanted to share this with you. As my instructor you may appreciate it. I do not know if it was divine intervention, the Murphy Mojo or something else, but I thought I would share.

Last week, I waited with baited breath as the next journey in the Murphy Method was about to begin. I had burned through Beginning Banjo Vol. 1 so I went ahead and ordered Vol 2, Misfits, and Vamping dvds and the Christmas DVD from Casey. They arrived and I jumped right in. After following your banjo track I decided that Sunday was to be dedicated to Misfits and Vamping. I awoke early on Sunday morning and after mass, I came home, greeted the morning, and jumped right in. After my usual warm up exercises going through all the songs from Vol. 1 I hit the Misfits and had a very good session of learning. Feeling confident (where the fun began) I tore open the Vamping DVD and began, what would become a very frustrating day and evening.

After about 4 hrs and a break for lunch, I began to realize that #1 my fingers were not cooperating with my brain and not only was I having trouble with the chords, but also listening and hearing the chord changes. That brings us to around 7:00 pm Sunday night and a constant spiral into bad playing. Now I could not even play anything without major mistakes. I should have packed the banjo away and left it for another day, however being a stubborn mule of a man I pressed on. The constant thought in my head was, I am a college graduate with an advance degree, I am an insurance and financial business owner by trade, this can not be that difficult. Well the Banjo Gods did not agree and the systematic failure in my playing continued. Around 8:30pm I had finally had enough and after many expletives and adjectives I half jokingly told my wife I was going to take the truck out for a drive and return the Banjo to the Gods since apparently a Yankee born and raised in Tucson, AZ is not meant to play the banjo.

I packed the banjo in the truck with the full intention to either bury it in the desert or to see how well a banjo could fly as it was tossed out of a truck at 70 miles an hour.

We live north of Tucson near the base of the Catalina Mountains and I decided to head off and clear my head and say goodbye to my banjo with a quick and painless assassination of my newly found foe. It was a full moon and the saguaros and mountains were literally stunning. My wife had recently purchased me XM satellite radio and I just happened to come across a station called Bluegrass Junction. I figured I could not play, but at least I could enjoy the music as I drifted along the highway.

What happened next, I still cannot wrap my head around, and since I am not a drinker, nor a partaker of the herbal cigarettes (at least since college), but over the next 1/2 hour I began to hear all the licks in the songs that were being played and the vamping and the chord changes. Thinking that I had or was about to lose my mind I pulled over at a small turn out and realized I had been driving for about an hour and was well on my way into the mountains. As I sat there for the next 25 minutes, it was if the songs themselves were trying to teach me something and the clarity of the licks, chord changes and vamping were amazing.

Then the epiphany happened. In 40 degree weather under a full moon I broke out a camp chair and camp light I had in the truck and took out my banjo and tried to follow along. Amazingly I was able to vamp and my fingers were working making the chords, I could make the chord changes with the song and at least could recognize some of the licks begin played on the radio, although I could not play the lead, I could at least hear the chord changes and vamp along somewhat with a limp.

At this point, I again was happy and my banjo was safe from destruction. I was so happy sitting there under the stars playing with the radio blasting, I guess I did not realize that standing behind me was and Arizona Highway Patrolman. After a near heart attack he simply stated that he had been driving southbound and noticed someone at a turn out with a camp light playing a banjo. An oddity in Arizona to say the least. I explained the entire day that lead up to this and we both had a good laugh and as it turns out he was a bluegrass fan and had dabbled in the guitar. I told him of your teaching method and he said he would check it out.

I guess the moral to all this is in my mind is, Dont over practice to the point of exhaustion, Never give up, and most importantly your teaching method, although not always apparent immediately is actually re-programming you brain and ear to hear things the average player may not.

In the week since my ability has increased substantially from that night and my only complaint now is that when I listen to the songs it is hard to enjoy them because I am listening for chord changes, vamping and licks. Instead of just enjoying the song. For now I will take that trade off.

As to your method, based on that experience, is truly groundbreaking, or I am losing my mind LOL. Either way I want to Thank You, Casey, Red and the rest of the Murphy Method Misfits and Monkeys for your teachings and instructions and looking forward in continuing my Banjo journey with you lessons and camps

Augie says:
3/8/2011 9:36:22 AM

I usually call on Sam to help me out when things get that bad. He always seems to have a calming effect on me. If after Sam's consultation I don't feel like pushing the banjo lesson further, I go to bed and sleep like a baby. Life's too short to worry about little things. I know you're gonna ask, Who is Sam? He's my dear friend Samual Adams. He He

Oalbrets says:
3/8/2011 10:15:09 AM

I go to bed and try to sleep like a baby but the song keeps playing in me head so I am up then down. up then down.

Banjosnob says:
3/9/2011 3:05:59 AM

Is that not the truth!!!! If you are learning a song... it "plays" over and over in your head. You can't get away from it... or is it my compulsive nature coming out. Anyway, it is a constant source of practice for me. I hear it,hum it, tap it.......oh gosh... there it goes again....Hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Augie says:
3/9/2011 5:44:29 AM

My wife gets very upset when I stand up in bed and start singing, "Going up Cripple Creek, goin at a run". She's got a very limited sense of humor. Hmm

Oalbrets says:
3/9/2011 8:30:20 AM

Lynn, you hit the nail on the head. Last night I went to sleep with Salt Creek playing in my head and woke up with it still playing in my head. Broken record.It is weird, I can hum every note of this song.

DGEBanjo says:
3/9/2011 2:02:32 PM

you will never listen to bluegrass or anay other music the same way again, now you will pick out the licks, the harmoney the melody and chord changes, your ear is becoming your teacher aint it grand!

rickshunter1 says:
3/13/2011 4:29:02 PM

When I get aggravated I just sit the Banjo down and get on the chat room for awhile then go back and try again if that don't work I drink a beer if that don't work I drink another one if that don't work it keeps going till I think I sound better or get to drunk to play HaHa

thehurricane says:
3/26/2011 9:55:19 PM

My many years of playing guitar has me listening to every song and knowing pretty close to where the musician's fingers are. I would love to achieve this concerning the Banjo. And yeah, you can do that in Arizona. Where I am you would have to have a can of mosquito repellant along the chair and forget the light!


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